My disabled friend is depressed.?

This brought me to tears:( I'm so sorry about your friend. Let her know how amazing you think she is for rarely complaining and that you're sure that if she were normal, she'd be a great mother and things like that. Let her know that you are there for her and pray for her. (I just did). I honestly don't really know what to reply to this question with...:/ I think that she should go through with the surgery, though, because if it were to work, her life would be a lot better.